Just remember this...

[chrisburns]

A person can change. My girlfriend of 2 years and 3 months recently broke up with me last Thursday, and when I talked to her last she still wanted to be really good friends and see me this upcoming weekend when i go home, well she said she would call me on Friday, and it wasnt until last night that I heard from her via Email, she within 2 days had already moved on and started dating someone else, she promissed me herself that she wouldnt date for a while atleast or drink at all, but the next day she got drunk, followed by the next day and so fourth. And now she doesnt want to hear or see me. This isnt like her and I know one day she will realize it, but what I guess im trying to say is, despite you feeling love, you will know the right one for you when it happens, dont give up to much for just a girlfriend, which i did, time, a lot of money, and effort, for one day they may no longer be the person they once were.

[Greg]

Been there, done that man, it sucks. Just wait for someone better to come along. That's where I'm at.

[exmanx]

Move on Chris. Remember the good times and look for someone else. Love is painful, parting is hard but if you drag it out it gets unbearable. She's made her bed, let her lie in it. You get out and live your life.

Good luck

Andy

[FlyingPhotog]

Sounds like what she told you was a bold-faced lie Chris. She let you down easy saying she wanted to be friends, but I bet she already had her eye on the other guy at the time she broke up with you. She played you and it sucks to be in your situation. But it works out the best for you. If she's gonna be like this, she's not the type of girl you want to marry anyway.

[ACman]

If shes going to lie to you like this, then I wouldent want to know some stuff she didnt/kept from you when you guys were together. Dont focus all your energy on her. Face it on other, better, much more enjoyable things.

The best thing you can do is move on. Live. Dont worry about her. Best thing to do if your going to think about it is think of all the good times youve had, focous on positive thoughts and not negative ones. Try not to think about her. Get on with your life.

Ive been through some relationships that were fun, and some that were hell. I dont focus on the few bad ones.

I dont suggest going out and trying to find another girl or to find another girl so you can make her jelous, I think you should take your time.

Sorry to hear about it. Hope everyones advice helps.

[ptbodale]

Very unfortunate Chris. You will be better off, its just hard to think you will be at this time.

Take a deep breath, find your buddies and go out with them.

[a78jumper]

Sounds like she is going through some kind of crisis of her own. Move on.

[chrisburns]

Sounds like she is going through some kind of crisis of her own. Move on.

Yeah, and I think what she did was something to make herself feel that she was better. I will always care about her, and hope that she will be happy and successful at the end, but I realize that I dont want her anymore, but I will always care about her. A lot of this has to do with her parents and how they raised her. Anyway, thanks everyone, you have all been great.

[bloodhound96]

Sorry to hear that man. breakups suck hardcore. Keeping yourself busy can help a lot too. Go out, find a club or somethin, pick up a new hobby, and you'll finally you'll realize...damn, that chick was nuts. I'm way better off now.

[ASpilot2be]

Sorry to hear that man Here is a formula for future refrences:

[screaming_emu]

Sorry to hear bout that Chris. Long distance relationships can suck hardcore because you dont even see something like this coming since you dont get to spend a lot of time with that person. There's only one thing you can do now, move on, go to a party this weekend, and bang one of the many beautiful women that UND has to offer

oh yeah...let mek now if she has a friend

oh yeah, I left you a message on your facebook wall...cause you know she's gonna read it

[Van Hoolio]

It's Burns-A-Palooza Time!

The very successful, very disease free gentleman.....

[screaming_emu]

It's Burns-A-Palooza Time!

The very successful, very disease free gentleman.....

yeah, party at my place...we can start our own frat!

[chrisburns]

yeah, party at my place...we can start our own frat!

LMAO, what the ladyless frat

[Genessee]

LMAO, what the ladyless frat

I thought the Emu was at UND, not Riddle..?! jk